1. Give her direction.
But don’t control her; you don’t own her. When it comes to deciding on where to eat or what activity to do, don’t second guess yourself over and over. If she wants to be indecisive fine, but you as a man must always be sure of both your words and actions. Lead with confidence, not constant self-doubt.
2. Be a gentleman.
Have manners when out in public and also In private . Be chivalrous and open the car door for her.
Pull her seat out and push it back in when sitting down at a dinner table. Walk on the outer side of the sidewalk when walking down the street with her.
While those things sound incredibly simple, they are super easy to forget!
3. Avoid losing your temper around her.
Be patient with her. Arguments happen and many say they are simply a part of relationship building.
A gentleman must control his temper and refrain from acting like a child. You must be able to handle your emotions, though, that’s not to say you can’t express more emotional ones. Deep insults and adult temper tantrums are unacceptable.
When dealing with stress, it’s one thing to confide in a woman, it’s another to make your problems their problems. Don’t make her stressed simply because you’re stressed and by all means never Hit her
4. Surprise and challenge her.
Take her to new places, try new things together, and don’t be afraid to be adventurous romantically. Regardless of how awkward or awesome your end experiences are, accepting risk together leads to more trust in each other. Even the small moments matter.
Gifts such as flowers, cards, tickets/trips, and so on when done randomly work wonders. Give them when they are most unexpected. Valentines, birthdays and holidays aren’t surprises, they are literally already scheduled.
Don’t overdo it!
Even after you’ve got a girlfriend or wife, continue to entertain her. Tell her random jokes, play hard to get from time to time, and keep things interesting. For instance, when she’s putting on makeup in the morning: Walk in unannounced, wrap your arms around her body while behind her, and put your chin on the top of her head. Wait there while she just melts away inside.
When it comes to teasing her, just remember that it’s one thing to be a jerk and humiliate her in public. It’s another to casually embarrass each other while you jokingly laugh it off. Know the boundaries and respect them.
5. Compliment her wisely.
Your compliments will only go so far until they are just common phrases. Use them sparingly and at the right moments. For one, you’ll be less clingy and two, every time you dish out a compliment it will have some meaningfulness behind it.
Remember to show her some appreciation for what she does.
6. Consider her needs for a moment.
Believe it or not, but leaving the toilet seat up can be enough to infuriate some women to the point of insanity. In fact, there are numerous cases of those events being the reason for divorce!
The point is, take a moment from time to time to get a better idea of what you can do to better the relationship.
Perhaps you are doing something that irritates her, but it is so small that you don’t realize it at first. Men may often view things like leaving a toilet seat up so simple, worry-free and incredibly idiotic to even complain over, but guess what, women notice, and some really do care!
7. Protect her
Don’t be a wimp! Stand up for her when it’s the right thing to do. Never should you allow others to put her down when it’s unjustified. However, that doesn’t mean you should be a macho man that goes around picking fights over anything and everything you don’t agree with. Not every woman is an angel.
When you don’t agree with her and you know she’s dead wrong, hold off until you are in private to later discuss. Never expose her out in public and then go sit down.
9. Have goals and invite her to be a part of them.
The same can be said of your hobbies. While she might not enjoy all of your interests, goals, and hobbies, there’s a good chance that some of them will keep the relationship interesting and fun.
Learning a new skill together as a couple can be a rewarding experience. In another light, encourage her to aim for her own goals. Be supportive no matter how difficult the end dream may be.
Be her number one fan. Push her to be passionate, and take joy in the excitement in her eyes.
When it comes to your own goals, you must be able to provide for her. Give more than you take. Don’t be a lazy bum that expects to be waited on hand and foot while bringing absolutely nothing to the relationship.
10. Listen but don’t over talk her.
Especially when you first start seeing each other. Conversations should be fun and playful, not boring and dull as you dish out your entire life’s story at once. Light conversation and being an excellent listener is all that is required.
While in a relationship, you’re certain to find yourself listening to a woman that talks about anything and everything for what seems like hours on end. While it’s not always enjoyable, pay attention long enough to ensure you are showing a genuine interest.
Give her the chance to seek your guidance when it comes to problems, or relieve stress by getting things off of her chest. Eventually, you’ll build more trust as she shares more personal stories, thoughts, etc. with you.
During conversations, pick up on certain words and phrases and repeat them back. It’s a great way to show that you are actually listening and paying attention.